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02 October 2015

Wait - graduate school is HARD?

As of this past Monday (September 28th), I have been in Montréal for exactly one month and as of today (October 1st), it is the start of a brand new month which means it’s blog time!  It seems crazy to think I’ve been here for almost the exact same amount of time that Lauren and I spent in Québec City two years ago.  That summer seemed to go by at the perfect pace and I had always thought, “Wow!  Five weeks is a long time!”  But it still feels like I just arrived in Montréal.  Perhaps it’s because I have my classes only once a week and the content moves so much more slowly—perhaps that’s why things seem to be moving at a completely different pace.  Maybe it’s because it feels like there’s so much more to Montréal than Québec City—so many more people (over 500,000 more), so many more places to discover and see.  Not that I’m saying “Montréal is soooo much better than Québec City.”  It’s just different and perhaps it takes a person more time to really get used to it.

But while I say the past month has gone by so quickly, quite a bit has happened since I last wrote in early September.  I spent the first week getting to know Montréal and, mainly, the transit system.  I’d already taken and gotten used to the metro back in November when I visited, but I’d only ever taken a bus in Québec City (and back in California), but never in Montréal.  My problem with buses is that you have to know exactly where you’re going and what your stop looks like in order to know where to get off, whereas on the metro they announce what station you’re at.  So I was apprehensive about taking a bus and potentially getting lost.  My first foray on a Montréal bus was when I went to go have lunch with my lovely friend, Gabrielle.  I managed to get to the restaurant and back with absolutely no trouble.  Hallelujah.  

 A few days later, I went to Montréal’s Six Flags park, La Ronde, as an activity with a bunch of people living in the three dorms.  I had been worried that I would end up walking around by myself, but I was lucky enough to meet a group of nine others and we stuck together the whole time.  We called ourselves the C-Squad, cutely enough, and went on about five rides with super long lines.  But roller coasters is roller coasters and I hadn’t been on one since I was fifteen and my school’s choir went and performed at Disneyland.

Two days after La Ronde, it was the start of classes.  And by golly was I nervous.  My first class was on Tuesday at 10:15 in, weirdly enough, the business building.  It’s a class shared with mostly undergraduate students; only three of us are graduate students, but the professor has different criteria for us and has separate meetings with us.  My other two classes have four and six people respectively.  What I hadn’t really thought about was the possibility of most, if not all, of my classmates being native francophones.  This puts me at an extreme disadvantage in that I have to work twice as hard to make sure that I can understand everything and speak well.  Not to mention the fact that, in at least one of the classes, the professor takes off a lot of points for grammatical errors, which, again, puts me at a huge disadvantage.  Gulp.  But as anxious as this all makes me, I’m trying to keep my chin up and tell myself that they wouldn’t have accepted me into the program if they didn’t think my French was strong enough.  Right?  Right.

I managed to intermix my studying and constant (CONSTANT) reading with other things.  I got to hang out with my friend François after I had been here for about three weeks and had had lunch with Gabrielle the day before that.  They’re probably the only two people I know here in Montréal, other than those I’ve met since I’ve been here, so it’s been nice to see some familiar faces.  And they just rock, so there’s that, as well.

For a while I had been planning on attending an event on September 26 held by Yamaska (which is apparently a soap opera here?) about suicide prevention.  Bruno Pelletier had recorded a song for the event and was going to perform in there.  Now, Bruno was originally the draw for me to attend, but then I realized what the event actually was and how important suicide prevention is to me as someone who has struggled with depression for over ten years as well as suicidal thoughts and feelings.  Unfortunately, not enough people purchased tickets and the event was canceled.  I was rather disappointed, and people reminded me that I would be seeing Bruno in October, but it was hard to explain that that wasn’t the point of my disappointment.  It was an important cause, something about which awareness should definitely be raised, but it was canceled because not enough people cared to go.  Ah, well.

This is all chronological, I swear.  I found out about the event cancelation after I got back from hanging out with François.  I had little time to dwell on my sadness, however, as I had found out just the other day that Marie Mai, one of my absolute favorite singers, who is going to be “in residence” at the Théâtre St-Denis this December, was not only starting the ticket sales the following day, but that she was going to be at the theatre for the event, taking pictures and signing stuff.  Holy cookies.  I felt a bit weird about going alone, especially being twenty-four when most of her fans are under twelve, but I don’t care.  I love her!

So.  Saturday.  Tickets were due to go on sale at 10:30, but I knew the line to see her was going to be crazy, so I decided to get there at nine.   (Luckily the theatre is right next to a metro station I know really well, so I didn’t lost – yay me!)  Already there was a line forming, as apparently people had been there since six, but I wasn’t too far back.  It turned out later that I ended up arriving at precisely the right time.  But more on that in a bit.

After a while, as more people started to arrive, people from different radio stations and the like began running up and down the long line of people and filming us (them, really, I was too self-conscious) screaming and looking excited.  A pair of girls went up and down with boat load of Marie Mai swag and asked young girls to sing a few lines from their favorite Marie Mai song to choose something like a baseball cap or a lanyard.  All the while, a small selection of Marie Mai songs were blasting from a speaker.  Sweet.

Just after 10:30, a large, black SUV pulled up to the curb right in front of where I stood in line.  And people.  went.  nuts.  There were security dudes and camera dudes and screaming girls and people across the road filming with their phones and people chanting her name and holy cookies it was crazy.  It took a while to get out, but people continued to go nuts.  One woman also thought it would be appropriate to actually lean on the side mirror of the SUV and just stand there, using her phone to film Marie Mai through the window for like five minutes.  How stalkerish is that?  Honestly, some of the moms were crazier than their daughters.  I hasten to add that I was standing back further on the sidewalk, away from the crowd.

Things went crazy again when she got out of the car.  All of a sudden her little blond self was on the pavement and people were screaming their little heads off.  I stood toward the back and watched as she ran up and down the long line of people, high-fiving and giving hugs to ecstatic little girls.  I did manage to get this bit on film, as I was highly amused by the insanity.  (This is not to say that I was not excited—I most definitely was.  I just did not lose my head.)  On her last run back up to the SUV she turned around and had someone take her cell phone to get a group picture.  Immediately everyone crowded around her, mostly young girls but a handful of moms, as well, managed to get near the front.  I didn’t want to be pushing any ten-year-old girl or taking her spot when she should be close to her idol, so I just peeked up from the back.  They posted the picture on Facebook a little while later, and you can see me waaay in the back, and she just looks so happy surrounded by her little fans, and they look absolutely overjoyed to be with her.  It’s adorable.

[I hope I’m not coming off all ‘high and mighty,’ like, “Oh, I was so composed while they were all nuts.”  I really was excited to see her, but I wasn’t flipping out trying to get a glimpse of her or touch her arm or get in the front of the photo with her.  I was happy to be there, but I knew the little girls who loved her, quite possibly more than I do, deserved to be at the front with her.  I wasn’t about to try and squeeze past them.]

Anyway.  Moving on.  She went ahead into the theatre and, after a while, the line began moving.  At some point, one of the theatre employees informed the masses that a number of seats had been “blocked off” from the online sales so as to give those who were waiting in line a chance to get really good spots.  A burly security dude was standing at the main doorway to prevent things from getting too crowded and to direct people either to the ticket booth if they had not yet bought their tickets (some were members of the theatre’s… club… thing and had had access to a pre-sale) or to the long hall where Marie Mai was if they had.  I went up to buy my ticket and the woman asked what date I wanted (there were fourteen shows, I think, to choose from), and I told her that any of them would work, so she found the best seat available.  So on Friday, December 18, I will be seeing Marie Mai from the second row, almost exactly in the center!!  It’s better than anything I had expected – I am SO stoked!  It was extremely hard to hear the woman because, for some reason, ticket booths like to put the tiniest sliver of space in the glass separating you from the teller, but eventually she asked me for my phone number and I told her I didn’t have one, so she told me that, if I lost my ticket, they wouldn’t be able to replace it.  I don’t know why not having a phone affects that, but oh well.  It’s not like my ticket is leaving my room for another two-and-a-half months anyway.

After I bought my ticket, I stood at the end of the line of people waiting to get into the long hall.  It had been decorated with all of Marie Mai’s various awards and posters from her discography, which was awesome.  Annabelle Cosmetics, which I believe Marie Mai is the “face” for, was giving free makeovers to anyone who wanted them, which made a bunch of adorable girls happy.  As I was waiting in line, a woman approached me and asked if I wanted to be entered in the contest to see Marie Mai in Las Vegas, so I said “Suuure,” all tentatively in French, and I guess my timidity showed, because she immediately switched to English and said, “Oh, would you like me to speak English?”

“I prefer French,” I said, “because I’m here to learn French so I really want to speak it well.”

“Oh!” the woman said, all surprised and delighted.  “That’s magnificent!  Great!  Okay, so…” and then she launched into her spiel about how to enter the contest, which required me to take a selfie and post it to Instagram with a certain hashtag.  She took the picture of me and stood over me while I posted it and, voilà, I’m entered in a contest to go see Marie Mai in Las Vegas.  How cool would that be?  (And ironic as hell to see her in the U.S.  Or maybe it’s not to see her, it’s just to see a concert.  Hm.)

The line moved fairly quickly amidst the posters, makeup stands, and popcorn and cotton candy machines, and soon I was up at the front.  A woman standing up there told me I could either take a selfie with her or get my picture taken by one of their people, at which point it would be posted on Facebook.  I chose the latter.  Then, suddenly, it was my turn.

“Bonjour,” I said, for once managing not to be overly high-pitched, as I walked forward.

Golly, she was nice.  She said “hi” and then looked a bit perplexed for a moment.

“We’ve met before, haven’t we?” she asked.

“No,” I replied.  “I’ve only been in Montréal for three weeks after I moved from the U.S.”

“Wow!” she said.  “You’ve been here for three weeks and already you speak French like that?”

Teehee.  I explained that I had bought her whole discography on iTunes and therefore didn’t have anything for her to sign other than the back of a huge sticker I had been given by some random company while in line.  I must have babbled too incoherently, because she seemed to only hear the part that I owned her whole discography, because she was like, “Aww, merci!”  As she signed it, she asked my name, and I told her it was Rose.  Her signature is lovely.  She spoke English for like one sentence, but I can’t remember what it was.  But it was French for the most part.  Yay!  We turned to the camera and smiled all adorable-like, I thanked her again, and I got a hug, and then it was over.  Dreamy sigh.

She’s awesome and so super nice.  Go listen to her music.  Right now.

Since then, not much else has happened.  Last Sunday I went and looked at the blood moon with a group of friends, whom I adore, and that was fun since there were no clouds, though it was cold.  Golly, it’s been cold.  Not cold cold, but cold enough for me to have been wearing fluffy pajama pants and a sweatshirt.  I mean, my window is open still, but that’s beside the point.

Oh, wait, other things have happened.

Lauren gets here in two weeks!  TWO WEEKS I SAY!

And then.


So you guys might know about my love affair with Disney’s The Hunchback of Notre-Dame, which started about seven years ago.  I met, not only Lauren, but also a lovely Canadian girl by the name of Kate.  We became super close and talked all the time, but we had never been able to meet in person ‘cause, hey, we lived on opposite sides of the continent.  And we still do.  BUT.  Later this month, she will be visiting Ottawa, which is approximately two or so hours from Montréal.  You know what that means?  THAT’S RIGHT, KIDS: KATE AND ASHLEE ARE GOING TO MEET AND THE WORLD IS GOING TO EXPLODE.  I am SO freaking excited to finally meet this wonderful person.  We’re insane and it’s awesome.  I’m going to take a bus to see her on October 25 and spend the day with her before heading back to Montréal that night.  It shall be wonderful and excited and AHHHHHHH.

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